Sunday, January 23, 2011

An old article..

Extracted from ST online
June 4, 2008
Would you prefer to live in a world where you earn $60,000 a year while those around you average $40,000, or one in which you earn $100,000 but everyone else gets $200,000?

Robert H. Frank, professor of economics at Cornell University, says that most people find the first option more attractive. When it comes to salaries, we care more about relative size than absolute size. What matters most is earning more than our neighbours.

The same holds true for all sorts of things. The actual size of our apartment matters less than its size compared to everyone else's. And most of us will settle for a modest car - provided our neighbour is driving something worse.

Prof Frank labels things like salaries, houses and cars as positional goods, whose defining characteristic is that the amount of satisfaction we get from them is strongly influenced by comparison with what others have.

The American essayist H. L. Mencken hit the nail squarely on the head when he defined wealth as 'any income that is at least one hundred dollars more a year than the income of one's wife's sister's husband'.

It is a sobering thought. We assume that getting a pay rise, or moving into a new apartment, or trading-up to a better car will bring us increased levels of happiness and satisfaction. In fact, many of us simply raise the bar on what counts as adequate.

We work longer hours, earn more, spend more and consume more. Meanwhile, everyone else does the same. So, by comparison, we are no better off, and therefore no happier.

After German reunification in 1990, living standards in East Germany increased dramatically. Despite this, happiness levels actually fell. The East Germans were better off, but began to compare themselves unfavourably with the more affluent West Germans.

But not all goods are positional. Try answering this question: Would you prefer to live in a world where you have two weeks' vacation while those around you average one week, or a world in which you have four week's vacation but everyone else gets six weeks? Most people prefer the second option. With vacation time, the absolute amount is more important than the relative amount.

The same holds true for things like health and marriage. The satisfaction we derive from them is not strongly influenced by a comparison with those around us. Our enjoyment of good health is not spoiled by the knowledge that our colleagues are also fit and well. We do not enjoy our marriages any less because our neighbours are happily married.

Prof Frank labels things like vacation time, health and marriage non-positional goods.

The problem we face, as individuals and as a society, is that the balance of our lives can all-too-easily become shifted too much towards the acquisition of positional goods rather than non-positional ones. Our tendency to compare ourselves to others on things like salary, house and a car, can make us spend too much time and energy in pursuit of them.

Research suggests that most Americans would be healthier and happier if they worked fewer hours. But the relentless desire to keep up with the Joneses prevents them from doing so.

All too often, we base decisions on a flawed theory of happiness that puts undue emphasis on positional goods. We sacrifice leisure time and family time to stay in the rat race.

British economist Richard Layard and the author of Happiness: Lessons From A New Science, puts it succinctly. 'Most people are not rivalrous about their leisure. But they are rivalrous about income, and that rivalry is self-defeating. There is thus a tendency to sacrifice too much leisure in order to increase income.'

I used to teach in a primary school. I had a colleague, a middle-aged woman who often complained that the demands of teaching full-time and looking after a family left her feeling stressed out and exhausted. She often talked about going part-time. Since her husband earned a good salary, she could have afforded to do so.

Then, a part-time job came up at the school where we worked. To my surprise, she didn't apply for it - she had decided to build an extension to her house and needed to work full-time in order to pay for it.

It seemed to me that she had traded quality of life for double-glazing. It is a trap we can all very easily fall into.

Gary Hayden is a freelance writer who specialises in education, science, philosophy, health, well-being, travel and short fiction.

Inspiring story

Buddha was well known for his ability to respond to evil with good. There was a man who knew about his reputation and he traveled miles and miles and miles to test Buddha. When he arrived and stood before Buddha, he verbally abused him constantly, he insulted him, he challenged him, he did everything he could to offend Buddha.

Buddha was unmoved, he simply turned to the man and said, “May I ask you a question?”

The man responded with “Well, what?”

Buddha said, “If someone offers you a gift and you decline to accept it to whom then does it belong?”

The man said, “Then it belongs to the person who offered it”

Buddha smiled, “That is correct. So if I decline to accept your abuse does it not then still belong to you?”

The man was speechless and walked away

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Sunday, January 9, 2011

First post of the year

Woah, I have not been updating for more than two months. Thats bad! Haha. I have been staying late due to the festive season and I am addicted to computer game - Football Manager 2010. I am finally out of my addiction and I have more time for work and doing research on stocks again.

My current job
Its not an easy job but is still manageable now. The job is stressful but I really learn a lot from this job. I have a lot of my batch mates in Dohby Gaunt branch and its wonderful that they are very willing to share great ideas to one another. Things are getting better and I hope I can stay long in this job.

I think this is the first time I am writing a new year resolution. When I was studying, the resolution is just about studying harder and getting good grades. Whenever I go to temples, I will only pray for good grades. One of my friends will pray for prettier looks. Haha. Now I pray for good health and find a good future partner.

New year resolutions
1. Exercise once a week
2. Sleep at least 7 hours per day
3. Don't think too much
4. Be less sensitive to insults or comments
5. Appreciate that I learn a lot in my work place
6. Read more books
7. Find a girlfriend?

Haha. The number 7 is a resolution created by my friend. 顺其自然 will be better :)

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Training is going to be over soon

My training will be over after this week. I have been enjoying myself for the past few days as I have managed to pass all exams :) Our class starts to plan on going to our 'grad' trip. Haha. The destination will be KL.

I was chatting with Pong recently and she said I sound pessimistic nowadays. I think I need to recharge sooner or later. She finally found a goal and I must find mine too :)

Saturday, October 16, 2010

Mid October 2010

After so many tests, I am left with two big tests for the next two weeks. Going to start on my work after two months of training. As some of my friends have no finance background, they struggle alot during this period of training. They have to take retake the tests multiple times and study late at night. Training is more comfortable to me now but I wonder whether my friends can tide it through.

These two weeks will be resting period for me and I hope I have the discipline to sleep before 11pm.

Sunday, October 3, 2010

1 out of 2 months of training is gone

In a flash, one month of training is gone. Everyone is rushing to clear their exams and the so called 'meet up after training' seems so impossible. My friend said training is the best part of career and I am wondering why I don't really enjoy this training.

Though I don't really feel sad even though I am going to study during the weekends but it is definitely not enjoyable. Anyway I have cleared four tests already. Its a good start. Hope everything will be smooth sailing :)

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

New Life / Lasik

There are like 12 tests coming out for my new job. I feel like fainting but I managed to pass one today. I realised everybody has their own study method. Some people will do notes, while for me, I will keep doing past year papers. I can still remember I fail CFA level 1. Its really a blow in my confidence as I did a lot like 500 MCQs but it turns out the papers I did are too easy compared to the real one -_-

I hope I can pass most tests at one go if not I have to restudy again.

My lasik is getting better. Getting very near to the perfect vision. Its really amazing and the 3.3k is well spent. Imagine being able to see at night in my room with my new eyes (I always take off specs when I lie on my bed).

I still miss my KPMG friends. I hope they are doing okay and peak will be nice to them. They are really a bunch of great frens. I think they still don't have my blog yet so I am not trying to get into their good books. Haha.